how should i deal with this?

eh... juz thought i should write about this....

its the second time i heard of a breakup and where i know the third party before i heard of the breakup... well actually its not really know of... juz that by feeling i noe sumthin is wrong...

funny thing is that it onli happens with SPC people lol... first time was well... a bass and a alto... with the sop as the third party... sort off... lol... alto gradusated... then left the bass and sop in choir... so like they come my place practise... c them play can feel sumthin wrong lah... as in it was too intimidate.... then yea... the news of the breakup came pretty soon... and yupz... news of the new couple came just as quick....

then the second time well... err... those ppl who read this blog shld already noe... i'll leave it to the people involved to decide if they wanna let it be known.... but b4 i heard of the news of breakup... i sorta noe also.. that time went back choir looksee looksee then yea... saw person A play with person B and well yea... felt it was more than friends.....

come to think of it... the guyz involved always hold a certain committee position...

aniways.. point is... i'm kinda lost... like i c people so sad... and like i know the reason like before the whole thing... so like i feel i can prevent it? but like how?? its like if i go tell the other guy/gal then like i create this conflict between a couple.. then if they breakup in a way it may be because of me.......
then if i go persuade the person(the one i think got sumthing wrong) like how shld i persuade?? i mean you cannot say you cannot like this person blah blah... then like how? that person will juz hate me loh... wad right do i have to say those to him/her?

aiyoh.. headache....

AND to Ek Ngee (i noe you read this XD) and everybody else.... i play like that to juz about any gal who is okay with it to a certain extend.... and well i have no intentions wadso-ever to get a girlfriend anytime soon over the next 2 years while i'm in NS... coz i think its too unfair to the gal... so please dun spread anything funny... i dun wanna play third party... esp. after i've seen 2....